It is impossible to get straight A’s in every circumstance in life. Life is about polarity. The sun rises, the sun sets. Some days you soar, other days you crash.
And hard as it is to read, sometimes you fail because you are not meant to go further in that direction. The first marriage dissolves because your true soulmate is waiting for you at the other end of the divorce. Or your athletic career ends due to an injury only to have you actualize your dharma as a sports doctor. The universe leads us to where we are meant to go in accordance with higher principles. In this context, there is no failure.
So We suggest you stop judging others, stop judging yourself, and just get on with it. The concept of failure only exists in a world of comparison.
Be love now, embrace all that is equally, release attachment to the outcome and the forces will automatically be with you.
Exercise
Examine the ways in which you put yourself down. Commit to not abusing yourself in those ways any longer. Affirm, “I release the need to criticize myself.”